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To Love or Not
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Have you ever fallen in love with two
different persons at the same time? Falling in love with two different persons
whom both have the same feeling for you too? Well, there is actually nothing
wrong with that. In fact I would say that it is something very normal, sometimes
even falling for more than two persons for some.
We are afterall human beings, creatures of great
emotions. It is just natural for one to develop a liking for the opposite
sex, especially when the both are getting along very well. Sometimes, it
is just so hard for us to control our feeling and nevertheless, it has always
been human nature to be greedy. It is always good to be able to have the
best of both worlds isn’t it? But well, things are usually just not
possible. At the end of the day, you just have to make your choice, to decide
for yourself, your one and only love whom that person to be.
To love or not to love, it is your choice. Think
of it this way. In our path of life, we are always faced with choices. Choices
that we have to make decisions over; decisions that will affect our life.
At circumstances, even having to make immediate decision on the spot, decisions
concerning of life and death. Sometimes we made the right decision and sometimes
the wrong. But no matter what our decisions might have brought so far; we
accepted them, didn’t we?
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That is life. There is not way the world is going
to stop moving just for you. To turn left or to turn right, to move forward
or to turn back, you just have to make up your mind. I should believe that
you will not choose to be stuck at the cross junction for your whole life?
Well, a game of chances and uncertainties life
has nevertheless always been. If you never play you can never win. You have
just got to make your choice, to decide where to place your bet. You can
of course choose to give up, not to risk your bet. You always have your choice.
Life is just so full of choices, remember? But well, will you later regret
giving up that chance when you have it?
The same goes for love. Between the both, you
just got to decide whom you really like more. Well, having choices is always
better than not having any at all, right? I should also believe that you
are not going to give up that chance of even placing your bet? I know it
is going to be hard but do just give yourself sometime. Follow where your
heart goes. Between the both, there is definitely one whom you will actually
like more.
Ok, just picture this scenario; there are this
two musical concert, both a once in a lifetime concert. Missing it, you will
never get the chance to see it again. You have been dying to catch the shows
all these while. However for such a coincidence, they are been held at the
same timing on the same day. Again, I suppose you will not just give up the
chance of catching both shows altogether? Between the two, you will definitely
choose one right?
Finally, to get to fully enjoy the show, which
you had decided upon, you just got to forget about that disappointment from
missing the other show. But well, more often than not, once you found yourself
in the musical concert, chances are you will be totally captured by that
spectacular ambience, enjoying yourself so much, totally forgotten about
any disappointment that you earlier had.
Now where we are discussing about love, it is
just the same. Many at times, we just can’t bear to give up on what
we already have, struggling so hard within ourselves. In the end, we might
jollywell end up with nothing at all. In life, we gain some we lose some.
It’s no use holding on so hard to something, which you know will not
come out with anything. When you have to give up, you have to. When you have
to choose, you just have to.
Just like choosing between the two musical concerts,
follow where your heart goes. Once you made up your mind, everything will
just seem so much clearer. Slowly, your path of love will reveal its way
for you. Will it lead to happiness for you? Well again, we wouldn’t
know. But if we never try we will never know. At least, I should believe
that you will be much happier than to be still stuck at the cross junction,
lost for direction?
Remember, the world is not going to stop turning
just for you. So is with love. The two persons will not just keep waiting
for you. Wishy-washy? You might just end up with nothing at all.
Happiness won’t come passing by twice,
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| Getting To Commitment
Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into
relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language,
and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions
are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment
issues or involved with someone who is.
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| He's Scared, She's Scared
Available for the first time in paperback,
this follow-up to the phenomenally successful
Men Who Can't Love tackles
the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying
contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore
why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the
equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom
gained by personal experience,
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sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.
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| Men Who Can't Love
This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
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a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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