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The essential female companion from the first moment he walks out of your life! The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up offers step-by-step advice for getting over him.

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Finally a book of poetry that describes every emotion you go through when you are in love and heart broken. This book is amazing and wonderful. I recommend it to who ever loves poetry and ever had a broken heart.

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It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit?
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Envy and Jealousy: Big Ugly Monsters
By: RoseDesRochers

Most everyone I know has experienced envy at one time or another.

"Some folks rail against other folks, because other folks have what some folks would be glad of." Author: Henry Fielding

Envy is an emotion, and it is not always easy to control our emotions. Have you ever read another writer's work and been jealous that your own writing has not reached that level or maybe one of your fellow authors has had great success with their first book and you have not been as successful. It is hard to look at another's success and not envy it. As writers each of us is capable of seeing what our own strengths and weakness are.

When I first got word a friend of mine sold 1834 copies of her book in a 90 day period, I secretly envied her. However, at the same time I was happy for her. She definitely deserved it and worked hard to get there.

Success is an achievement that we must work hard to reach. Some people can not accept this. They become so obsessed by their envy that they allow it to control their lives. The envious person will not work towards accomplishing success. In his own twisted little perspective he believes that he is successful. He believes that others are envying him. It is when envy, degrades to 'jealous envy' that it becomes damaging. Jealousy can be a very sad emotion, when from the depth of envy comes hatred. It is then that the envious person will stop at nothing to bring down a successful colleague. He will go to great lengths, no matter how damaging, if it means destroying the good name of his peer.
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The jealous person is simply someone who doesn't realize how he is hurting his own reputation. Beneath this jealous facade is a very insecure individual with low self esteem. His jealousy turns to hateful malicious acts. He first starts by criticizing others and then begins spreading false rumors and makes false allegations to instill doubt into people's minds. As the jealous person
becomes more envious he starts to engage in abusive behavior.

"The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves." ~William Penn, Some Fruits of Solitude, 1693

Now none of us can say that we have never been jealous of someone. But when you will go to great lengths to damage another person's reputation then it is time to seek help.

If someone is envious of you, don't allow yourself to be brought down to their level of hatred. You should be proud of your success, you have gotten where you are by putting a hand out to help others. It is only when we help others, that we help ourselves. We have all heard the old saying, "You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours."

"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful." - Albert Schweitzer (01/14/1875-1965)


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Rose DesRochers is a published poet and freelance writer. Rose has been writing poetry for more than 20 years. She is also the founder of www.todays-woman.net , a supportive online writing community for men and women over 18. She is also the Assistant Administrator of www.invision-graphics.com.

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Getting To Commitment

Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language, and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment issues or involved with someone who is.


He's Scared, She's Scared

Available for the first time in paperback, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.


Men Who Can't Love

This book saved me from going crazy and from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded just like the people in this book she'd read - "Men Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the same time.


I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality

This is a great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual to other are understandable and can be explained and treated.

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